Being Bullied: What Have I Got That You Want

6 Sep

We hear about being bullied so much these days.  We hear about kids being bullied mostly but adults are also.  I was bullied in school and a lot of others but not like the things you hear today.  There are unbearable teasing fighting, and killings either by bullies or the people being bullied.

Sometimes people are bullied in other ways adults sometimes in the workplace, at home or sometimes you feel as if you’re being discriminated or just people in general are rude to you.  Look at the person or person who bullies.  Often that person may see something in you they’d like to be.  You may be more attractive, smarter, or have a little more or less.

If you’re like me you may be the kind of person who doesn’t change for others who has to be themselves.  I am a person who tries to be nice to everybody but when it comes to doing what others want me to do or be I am narcissistic enough to know that I have to much to loose to do that.

I think that much of myself.  You should too.  When people or someone wants you to change and to become like them it’s because they usually see something in you that they can’t be.  I’m not saying not to ever confirm, not to change.  Sometimes it is good but if you have to give too much of yourself and to change yourself to their standards I don’t think so.

Don’t worry.  Sometimes the same person or people may change and become like you or try to.  In reality some of them would like to and just can’t Sometimes bullying often is just plain jealousy.  So just be glad that you are you and don’t let them win.  Overpower them and don’t let them overpower you.  They will if you loose yourself.

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5 Responses to “Being Bullied: What Have I Got That You Want”

  1. moonwina13 September 18, 2013 at 11:27 pm #

    People who want to do a make over on your brain are addicts, just like a junky. They must make you change, and if the don’t, they will never give up. Sometimes they smile, but don’t forget who they are.

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